Episode 90: How I Went from Shape-Shifting to Owning Who I Am
For most of my life, I thought I had to earn love. That if I could just be agreeable enough, successful enough, or whatever-the-hell-else enough, I’d finally feel worthy. I mastered the art of becoming what other people needed—so much so that I forgot who I actually was.
Maybe you’ve felt this too.
In this episode, I’m sharing my journey of untangling self-worth from approval, learning to see myself without judgment, and—finally—falling in love with the person I actually am. No conditions. No illusions. Just me.
If you’ve ever shrunk yourself to fit into someone else’s version of love or success, this episode is for you.
What We’ll Cover:
✔ The subtle ways we shape ourselves to be "lovable"—and why it never works.
✔ How to recognize the inner judge that keeps you stuck in self-doubt.
✔ What happens when you stop performing and start seeing yourself.
✔ The powerful shift that happens when you realize you’re enough, just as you are.
Real love—especially self-love—doesn’t come from meeting conditions. It comes from standing fully in who you are.
Journaling Prompt:
Where in my life have I been performing, shrinking, or bending to be ‘enough’ for someone else? What would it feel like to stand fully as myself—without conditions?
